The Universe Speaks To Us
Definitely things are far more interesting when they’re a bit entangled so instead of going straight to the next part of my life story I have decided to relate my experience in the city of my dreams. Somehow Florence has always been associated to important people in my life. I feel that this city “talks” to me in a way that no other place ever did.
Last minute I have decided to go by train because I love to enjoy the journey and also because I had little time at my disposal.
But first let me mention something I have found out very significant. Since I wasn’t feeling well the previous day/night my first thought was to postpone my meeting yet in the back of my head I knew I have made a promise and I like to keep it, or try at least. The previous night I had a dream, and my grandma made her appearance in it. Although it was a heavy dream, the following morning I thought about that continuously; but somehow I felt supported by her presence with me. So I had a shower and decide to hit the road.
Some of you know already how important signs and details are for me, so as soon as I arrived in Santa Maria Novella’s station and got out from the train I immediately saw my favorite number on the plate of the railroad. I smiled and took my suitcase and walked till I got in front of the hotel where my “extensions” - like I love to call them - were waiting for me.
I can’t put into words how mesmerised I am of the beauty of this city… the streets, architecture, the doors (OMG they’re simply wow) EVERYTHING for me speaks Elegance.
Later that night, we were invited to dinner by Mr. Blue (who prefers to stay private) and I must confess it was an interesting discovery. He arrived before us and he was waiting at the bar having a cocktail 🍸. As soon as I sat down, I immediately noticed the flower next to his glass. The dragon flower, the same my grandma had in her garden and the one I had in my cocktail later that night. I was wearing a black backless dress, 8 denier collant and at my feet, I decided to wear the Flavien that I haven’t wore yet.
While taking a picture of my legs (can’t help it) I turned around and noticed a decor element that left me speechless. It was a syphon bottle. Back in my childhood my grandma was working in a place where she was filling those bottles with carbon dioxide. I can’t tell how how happy I am every time something like that happens because for me it’s a confirmation that she guides my steps.
Now, going back to our dinner, I came to another realisation. You know when I tell you over and over again how important is to love ourselves and never let us be defined by others? Well that evening while my “extensions” were describing to Mr. Blue how they meet me and how they think in regards to me, I have realised my darlings, how important is how you make others feel when they are around you. I was the first to say that the opinion of others on you doesn’t matter, because it is the way you see yourself that prevails. But in that moment when he was talking, the spark in his eyes, the enthusiasm… made me feel so loved and appreciated. Because I have always considered that in life, it is not what you give to others but how you make them feel that matters. Being kind, solar, happy… might not always be easy but it’s so rewarding. We all face difficulties, but how we deal with them, and how we choose to respond in return is what makes the difference.
As for me, I will always choose kindness above all. That is my religion!
Thank you my loves for your unconditional love, for the amazing personalised tea and to you Mr. Blue for your hospitality and attention. 🙏🏽
