Domination
A form of Art that, for me, has always been about more than meets the eye. A connection that starts from the deepest corners of one’s soul, that resides there and you probably don’t even know it is within you, until something, someone, a convergence of circumstances or events, puts you right in front of it.
In my case it was like this… A woman in her 30s that had lived almost all fantasies, or at least she thought so, was about to discover a new, fascinating World.
You see… we all have within us something that triggers our senses. For me, pain is the catalyst! In strong contrast with my real life, where I am overprotective and loving, in intimacy I love when my partner suffers. His pain becomes my pleasure. And this is just one aspect…
When you ask me about how I feel being worshipped by a number of individuals, it almost makes me angry because you fail to understand the depth of a connection where you can feel totally exposed, yourself… its intensity.
What always drives me crazy is EXCLUSIVITY. I strongly believe that a Woman’s worth lies in being desirable yet inaccessible, because a strong Woman makes the difference between quality and quantity, and her worth can’t be bought. She chooses a partner, equally strong, with whom she knows she can embrace both her feminine and masculine energy. A man with whom she feels stimulated to become better, to grow.
Yes he can spoil, worship, adore and love her, but only because there’s a strong connection, not a mere trade.
I respect people who live their life in total freedom, and choose to experience their fantasies in the form of a profession, but in my case it is so intimate that I can only live it intensely or not at all.
You frequently ask me about how to become a sub, how to kiss my feet, etc. You just can’t!
It’s simple, because once you pay a price to get what you want, where you want to be dominated, and I accept… Then Who really dominates Who???
So let’s go back to the “real deal”, as my mom said… I am Dominant by nature. I choose.
And my feet, legs, heels… are as integral and important to me as any part of myself.
In my youth, I always considered myself crazy, strange sometimes, out of place, because I had this constant need of discovery, of going beyond what was unseen, forbidden, out of reach….impossible. And I was fiercely pursuing that. The force of attraction towards a World filled with what the majority would have considered as promiscuous, vicious, unusual… for me would have become a familiar place. A place among people that left their judgemental boundaries aside to embrace a part of what they thought they never were. Freedom in its most savage, raw form. Some of them curious to play a role, some of them embracing their unusual, or trying to overcome their limits, some for the thrill or curiosity... but all sharing a common trait. Finding themselves. Like I did.
And it’s not easy to find someone in life with whom you can live all this.
In my private life I think my dominant side took over effortlessly... Maybe because it’s natural? I don’t know…
When I speak about the different Women that reside in me being a Domme, that is something Unique. In the moment, I forget everything… my eyes glow differently as I AM a totally different Woman. It intensifies… I feel the thrill invading my body. Few understand how it truly feels, because you don’t do it for gratification, but to release and experience another side of yourself. It’s hard to put this into words, and I love the contrast in me. Somehow I think it’s what makes me unique…
So you understand why no amount of money could make me see things differently. Not when it’s about chemistry, complicity, nurturing. So instead of chasing a number of shoes, choose to satisfy yourself, your spiritual growth, your Woman’s essence, and when you find a man that you fantasise to have at your feet… go conquer his mind. You will not only have heels, but you’ll have a partner with whom you can freely be yourself… or whatever you want, and he will recognise you for all that you are, no worries.
With love,
TEKE
